Her first question was if I’d prefer monogamy or multi? I thought being in love with one would not let you to cheat her/him. But she never fell in love as she says. Is not being in “love” with somebody a good reason to cheat him? Maybe, if you’re a sex addict.

Men are tools for her purposes. She manipulates, insults, or uses them for sex, but never loves. That seems normal for an egoist person, but also she has not even one girlfriend at all. That’s weird. She loves being in the circle of men, in their attention spot, and she also loves being cared: shortly she’s an attention-whore. That’s weird too (!).

On the other, if you’re a woman and having sex with a lot of guys whom you’re not in an “official” relationship with, then you’re going to be called a “bitch” by those guys who have been cheated. Because that’s how they protect their honor (!); but they would never expect that answer: “You should fuck me better if you wanted me to be only your bitch.” Yeah and that hurts some, that’s what she said.

She loves also the pain which men cause. That conflict made me even more interested in her life. While using men as her slaves, she also want her slaves to whip her. That’s definitely masochism.

She’s just a good example, who I met in real, to mention that subject in my blog. And she’s not an evil person [that was not I tried to impose here], because she feels sorry when someone gets hurt if it’s because of her/cheats. And the last interesting things about her life is that she notes every person’s name who she slept with, the time and the place. On the contrary, most of men are even “proud” of their cheats and easily forget, and women have no speciality for them.

Of course, I don’t [half] appreciate cheating anybody you’re together with, but I liked her “free” lifestyle. Being free is not only about having sex with anyone she desires, more than that. How many of us is able to do whatever we want? Not much… And beside that, she’s also telling the truth at first to the guys who are interested in her that, her eyes would be always out for other guys. Maybe it’s a good way to get rid of “regrets“…

She’s the first one who is “mentally-like-a-man-but-still-a-woman” I met. Something is changing. Now, there are man-hunters too. So gentlemen, this is where “empathy” begins. Don’t do anything you don’t want to face with. In short, don’t say “I love you” if you really don’t. At least, be honest like Ms. Man-Hunter. löl.

Love.

There is a debate in Turkey about turban that some religious people want women to be free to wear turban at universities and other people stand up to them with their opposite idea. That controversy over turban is also being used as a political object by government (Justice and Development Party) and its opposing parties such as Republican People’s Party. On the other hand, there are some civilian organizations such as Local Management Research Help and Education Association that engaged in a disagreement with religious organizations. For example, there were a crowded protest in Ankara on February 2008 against today’s government because of its support on turban and it was not the only protest occurred in that time (Çağlav). Popularity of turban issue in Turkey points out a question: “Should turban be banned from universities or not?” because the universities are the quality and the future of Turkey. To live in a secular and independent county, turban should be banned from universities.

Prior to turban issue in Turkey, the revolution in clothing started in the Ottoman era. Because of having potentially advantageous relations with Western countries, the Ottoman had two different policies. One of them was secularism and the other one was Sharia. While using the secularism for the state affair to look familiar to Western peo